I'm tired of your empty threats. Every time you say, "well expect papers" I just have to laugh cause it never goes any farther. You think that they are gonna give someone of your character, who bitches about having to pay child support, who agreed IN COURT that you would pay for her plane tickets to come see you until age 11, and then try and tell me I have to pay for the tickets for her to see you again because you paid last time, who doesn't call his daughter for months on end leaving me to explain to a 3 year old why her other daddy doesn't call her yet her daddy that lives with her will call her while hes at work to tell her he loves and misses her all the time, who wants to complain because I said he had to stay in Virginia for a week while we were there because its going to be a lot of change for her with moving and being away from everything she knows, more custody? Think again.
You are selfish and only think about yourself and not the well being of your daughter. Did you ever stop to think that having everything she knows taken away from her and being in a place she doesn't know, around people she barely knows isn't going to be a traumatic adjustment on its own? You want to throw in taking her away from the only person she knows and bring her hundreds more miles away around more people she doesn't know and stay with you, who she really doesn't know all to well? Man, you need to grow up.
Go ahead and try and tell a judge I never let you see her. You agreed in court that you would come to where she was to see her unless I agreed that you could take her. Well guess what, I'm not agreeing to it so that means you have to come to her! As for "never" letting you see her, what a joke. You had her every other weekend from April 05- Aug 05, you got to see her in June 06 in which you kept her for a week and then for a week and a half Dec 06 and then on top of that, I let you take her to Idaho against my better judgement for 3 weeks! Yeah, go ahead, tell a judge I never let you see her. The one time I did agree for you to take her out of state, she comes home with a busted tooth that you tried to play off like it had always been that way because you were irresponsible and left her in a bathtub, with only a 5 year old and walked away! You went and did your damn dishes and couldn't hear her call you to go to the bathroom! What would have happened if she would have busted her head and knocked herself unconscious while trying to get out of the tub? The other kid in the tub wouldn't have known what to do and you most certainly wouldn't have heard her calling you! Yes, I may leave her in the tub and walk into a different room, but here's the difference between you and I. My house is smaller, I am able to hear her from whatever room I am in. I don't leave her alone for more then a min at a time and if I take longer then I thought, I at least say her name to check on her. I don't worry about her drowning because I don't put a lot of water in the tub. I don't worry about her slipping because I have safe guarded my tub and if she tries to get out by herself, she has enough grip so she wont slip and something on the floor to make sure she won fall when she gets out.
Please, go ahead and request more. I will bring all your dirt out in the open and I seriously doubt they will give someone who is going to Korea more custody. The judge will tell you to wait and revisit the situation later. I also don't think that your history with your daughter and your recurrent history of not calling for months on end will help you. Tell you what, you continue to not bitch about have to pay $500 a month to support your daughter, and make more of an effort to be a part of her life and not BITCH about having to pay to see her, then maybe, just maybe, you might get more in return.
I also love how you try and tell the military that you are her main provider. Hahahaha what a freaking joke. When you provide ALL of your income to taking care of her and making sure that she has a roof over her head, clothes on her back and food to fill her up, then you can claim that you provide for her more then 50%. Until then, don't act like you do.
I also don't give a flying fuck if anyone shows him this. I'm not trying to hide anything and I back up everything that I say. I have every email conversation with him, every IM, every phone bill that shows how many times he has called and how many times I have had to call him the last almost 4 years. I have proof that he filed a false report with the state as well as defamation of character on my behalf. Funny thing that nothing was ever done, nothing was ever investigated and you believed someone who has a history of lying, who has restraining orders out on her and has been investigated herself and found guilty of the charges brought against her. You are hilarious!!
Feedom comes at a price and some pay more than others. I proudly support my husband in his decisions to help protect our way of life even though it means long lonely nights of worry and heartbreak.
Saturday, March 1, 2008
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I know you and I aren't on good terms, but my God, your poor daughter!! Keep doing what you are doing woman!! keep your head on straight and your shoulders back... your a kick ass mom and it shows!!! GOD DAMN GOOD FOR YOU!!
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